Articles
How D/s works when it is done well: agreements, limits, chastity, control and aftercare. Written for adults who want to understand before they surrender.
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Locktober: what it is, where it came from, and how to prepare
October is the month of consensual chastity. What Locktober is, why it works, and how to agree it properly: limits, exits and a daily record.
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How to sleep in a chastity cage
The first nights are the real test, and it is almost always the ring. What is normal, what is not, and how long the body takes to settle.
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How long can you wear a chastity cage?
There is no universal maximum: it depends on the fit, on hygiene and on your body. What there is, is a set of warning signs that mean it comes off now, and a sensible way to build up.
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How to choose a chastity device (without wasting your money)
Materials, measurements and what to check before you buy. Ring size decides almost everything, and it is exactly what almost nobody measures properly the first time.
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What a keyholder is (and what the role actually demands)
The person who holds the key. It sounds like a passive role and it is the opposite: they hold the agreement, they decide, and they answer. What it involves, and the signs that you should not hand yours over.
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How a D/s dynamic is agreed (and why the agreement comes before the play)
Limits, safeword, scope and revocation: the conversation you need to have before starting a dominance and submission dynamic.